When I'm picking a career direction, I always feel like there are too many options or I'm a little scared inside. There are obviously a lot of opportunities, but I can't always focus on them. For example, in the first few years I was particularly interested in psychology and studied quite a bit spontaneously, and now I want to get a license, but I'm always under-motivated and just study a little bit every day. I know I will take the exam sooner or later, but I don't know if I will really become a counselor after the exam.
Later, I wanted to take the bar exam, and I bought all the books, but after years of thinking about it, I didn't actually do anything, and it was always in the planning stage. My family even said that if I passed the exam, they would help me arrange a job.
After working in finance for a while, I moved back to a small city to live with my parents. I don't like to work in an organization, but I miss the freedom and exercise of the investment atmosphere in Shanghai.
I'm still doing live streaming myself, and it's actually working pretty well, but sometimes I stop when I feel it's too tiring or boring.
I have a father who supports me in my family, so I don't have much pressure in my life, and I'm in a good position, so I feel like I'm holding back a lot of things. It's annoying that I don't have enough motivation to focus on one area and make achievements.
Hello, friend!
💗 I can sense from your sharing that you have a lot of ideas but not enough motivation to focus and it's killing you. You want to make a difference and a big hug from across the screen to you!
🍀 Life does require planning and I suggest you do a good job of career planning.
🍀 The first step in making a career plan is to know yourself. As the old saying goes, know yourself and know your enemy. Ask yourself, how is your character, what are your strengths and weaknesses, play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, so that you can work more successfully and happily.
🍀 Look at what resources are at hand and combine interests, strengths and needs to find a best match and determine a future career direction.
🍀Follow the principles of career planning, using the criteria of "like to do, can do, and worth doing" to evaluate and select the best career for you from the options.
🍀 We are often indecisive and double-minded, mainly because our goals are not clear. Once you figure out what you want, it's like having a guiding light, and you're on a steady path.
🍀 I'm a Demoiselle and I hope these suggestions are helpful! I wish you all the best!
