Graduation to find a job on the stumbling block, but also suffered a relationship betrayal, and now by the network fraud pit, feel that I can no longer trust others, look at who are like ill-intentioned, really do not know how to survive the day.
These things pile up and are so painful that you feel like you can't go on with your life. But the fact that you are able to voice your distress on the platform is a sign that help is being sought and a starting point for change.
Believe it or not, the truth is that most of our lives are the result of our own choices, even if some of our experiences seem awful. No one likes to be taken advantage of.
☞What was your ideal job like when things weren't going well? What held you back from getting the offer you wanted?
☞It's true that being emotionally betrayed and the other person leaving is solid, but aside from the pain, what did the relationship leave you with?
☞Network fraud this thing, now calm down and think back, how did I fall into the pit step by step at that time?
For example, some people change jobs like they change clothes and are always dissatisfied. It's not because the job is bad, but the way TA handles the job needs to be adjusted. Some people always encounter scum, not all other people's problems, but they did not let the other side learn to respect themselves.
This hurt, hard feeling is a reminder: look at yourself to see if there is anything you need to change. This is an opportunity for transformation. Like Nietzsche said: what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
I hope you make it through the storm and soon see a transformation and a rainbow.
