I dislike myself so much that I am always at a disadvantage when I interact with others and live like an island? ,
I'm really unhappy with myself, and I'm always thinking that if I'd gotten the hang of it sooner, I wouldn't have stayed so withdrawn. Because of my lack of experience in dealing with people and my fear of trouble, I was always worried that I would lose out in my relationships, and as a result, I pushed those friends who were kind enough to approach me far away. Now I realize that I have lived as an island, with little insight, missed so many opportunities, and limited my potential. As a middle-aged woman, I always feel that I have nothing, and I especially regret it when I see my peers with happy families and comfortable lives, while I see no hope in my life.
Hello, Mr. Owner!
Everyone comes to this world with a unique mission and meaning of existence, but not everyone can figure out at once why they live and what is the value of living?
I've been thinking about this since high school, and I still haven't quite figured it out. I've always had a low sense of self-worth, and an offhand look from someone else can make me ramble for half a day, thinking I'm not good enough, don't understand the world, and don't want to be set up, so I simply hide and don't want to take the initiative to socialize with people ......
But so what? It doesn't stop us from loving ourselves! At the end of the day, it's not scary to live as a loner, it's scary to stop loving yourself. Our relationships with the world and with others are really a mapping of our self-relationships. If we don't even love ourselves, who else is going to love someone who doesn't?
We must realize that the love in our lives ultimately comes from us. In the past, we used to look to the right person or rely on our family to solve all our problems, but now we have to learn to be the "right one" for ourselves.
How exactly do you do this? First, be honest with yourself about your imperfections, don't put limits on yourself, and don't complain. We can change the trajectory of our lives by learning and taking action to break the habit of self-denial!
How do you truly love yourself?
1. Stop all self-criticism, look at yourself in the right light and accept imperfections. Say to yourself: I love myself, I affirm myself!
2. Don't scare yourself, learn to think in positive self-affirming ways.
3. Focus more on the relationship with yourself and say to yourself, I am your favorite person!
4. Treat yourself with love and say to yourself: At this moment, I love myself completely.
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Honey, we have a lot of old ideas in our heads and new thought patterns that are not yet solidified. For faster results, print out some positive beliefs and read them every day for two months until it becomes part of your life.
The world and I love you and recommend reading Louise Hay's "The Reconstruction of Life", I hope my sharing helps!
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