I met him and his encounter is particularly fortunate, is in QQ by chance to add. Chatting up only to find that we are actually hometown, the two families are super close, take a taxi on seven or eight minutes, feel super amazing. Recognize that time I was 15 years old, he was 20 years old; to fall in love when I was 16 years old, he was 21 years old. We are long-distance relationship, I dropped out of school early, he is still in college, the distance is super far. A lot of friends advised me that we have no results, but I do not believe in evil. We can only meet when he is on vacation, he is not far away from the thousands of miles to see me, especially not easy. Since last year, we also have quarrels, long-distance relationship is really super insecurity, both love to hold things in the heart, do not like to say, but at least step by step over. I don't know from when, feelings from warm to light. This year he is going to graduate school and work, feel him tired, directly told me that I want to focus on career, no heart to talk about feelings. At that moment I simply suffocated, depressed to no avail. Now he still sends messages back, but the feeling has changed. This period of time is too difficult, I have paid for everything, but he did not want me, the heart blocked panic, the intention is difficult to calm. He accompanied me from underage to adulthood, I also fantasized about the future, but now ...... how do I get through, feel like suffocating.
Hello, owner, this is Whale Social Worker Kissing Wind.
It's so heartbreaking to see you share what you've been through, big hugs to you first~
You two met at 15, fell in love at 16, and have been together for so many years, with so many storms in between. The long-distance relationship was so hard to get through, but now the relationship is fading and he's opting out of the relationship because of grad school and work.
This is a bolt from the blue for you, isn't it? He grew up with you as a little girl, and you must have thought you could be together forever, not realizing that he left so suddenly that you didn't know what lay ahead.
He must have had his considerations when he decided to let go, maybe it was a relationship problem or a practicality factor that forced him to do it. He finally gave up.
But honey, when we fall in love, no one wants to be separated, but that's the way life is, no one can stay with us for the rest of our lives, and in the end, we can only rely on ourselves. So we have to learn to be independent and not rely on anyone.
The pain of losing love is really hard to bear, but we have to pull ourselves together and think about what to do with our jobs, how to improve ourselves and become better. You're still young and have a long road ahead of you, so cheer up!
Good luck~ (Whale Social Worker)
