I remember when I was a child, I overheard my parents' intimate voice one night, which was particularly loud. Since then, I could hear it almost every day, which gave me a great psychological shock, and the image of my parents in my mind collapsed all of a sudden. Before that, they often quarrel, I would like to help mediate, one by one to find them to talk, but found that their ideas one more than one selfish stubborn, each said their own reason. Many times down the road, every time they quarreled I was under great pressure, slowly disappointed in them, and now see them feel disgusted, just want to stay away. Now I feel disgusted when I see them and just want to stay away. My heart has become empty and low self-esteem, and I am even timid and afraid of things, and sometimes I still have arguments with them. I have given up on mediation, what can I do please? Thanks to anyone willing to listen and give advice.
Xiaowan answers:
If you want to stay away, then stay away decisively, it's your free choice. The key is to take practical action to stop relying on your parents financially, emotionally and spiritually, so that you can be truly independent. If you can't be completely independent all at once, at least being self-sufficient in one or two areas first will greatly reduce their negative influence.
