Three views with my husband.
They don't see eye to eye and often have arguments and cold wars, but they keep barely maintaining their relationship for the so-called good of the child, is this really good for the child?
Hello, dear owner.
You're asking if it's really good for the children to not end the marriage for the sake of the children.
That's a fantastic question to ask! Looks like you've realized the key points.
In family relationships, the core of all relationships stems from the husband and wife relationship. My personal experience is that if you get along well as a couple, the whole family is well; if you have a strained relationship, everyone suffers.
What kind of person you want your child to be, first you have to be that kind of person yourself; if you want to give love to your child, you must have love yourself. If you yourself are not happy, what you give your child can only be unhappiness. Please don't put the burden of marriage on your child; he can't afford it. In the future, if the only reason you maintain your marriage becomes for the sake of your child, then the child's slightest mistake may become the trigger, which is too unfair to the child.
Also, two people come together because of love, and if that love is gone, the family atmosphere hurts the children first.
