I try to salvage, but the other party has completely given up, the attitude is very determined, but I can not let go in my heart, should I continue to insist on it?
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I've often heard people say, "Those who pretend to be asleep can't be woken up, and those who want to leave can't be kept." That's right, life is like that, some people leave and some people come, we are always in the gain and loss of slow growth.
The moment TA decides to leave, the end may be predetermined. It may be an accumulation of problems in the relationship, or some small things that have piled up, and there is always a reason for ta to leave.
Now you, I can feel that you want to keep TA very much, moody, sad and helpless. But think about it from another perspective, even if you get it back, can the relationship still be as happy as it was before? We all know that broken mirrors are hard to reunite, although there are examples of reunion, but if you can not go back to the old days after salvage, then perhaps there is no need to force.
But the reality is that history repeats itself a lot, and there are far fewer examples of truly broken relationships. Without the ability to repair a relationship, even the most strenuous efforts may not live up to your expectations.
That's the way life is, some people will leave, some will stay, and new people will walk in. That's how we grow and experience.
We should learn to let go. For TA, leaving may be a new beginning; for you, letting go can also open a new chapter. I've always believed that people who are meant to be together will always come together in a roundabout way, so it's good to give each other some space and time.
Yes, I know this decision is hard and probably keeps you up at night. I can understand being torn, feeling relieved at times and heartbroken at others. But honey, it's okay, it's time to let go.
Give yourself a chance to let go and why don't you go for a big meal, a big sleep, and give your mind some breathing room. The process may be long, but I hope you don't do anything to hurt yourself. As long as you become good at what you do, I believe that what is meant to be will always come, and it's useless to force what you can't hold.
Learn from life, gain experience in your experiences, and summarize the reasons for your failures. Look back and see what part of the relationship went wrong to help self-growth. Cheer up 😊.
Don't regret your choices. When faced with two directions, pick the one that suits you and that you can grasp.
Come on 😊, you will get through this time of youth and become stronger.
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